Dear Black Woman

Dear black woman. You matter. You are valuable. Your opinion is valid. You are not alone. When you feel misunderstood. And like nobody is listening. I am listening. I hear you. I see you. I am you. The love you were created with. Covers you each second. You aren’t dramatic. You aren’t too loud. You…

Your Truth Matters: Rejecting Conformity

Everyone has a truth. We hide from it to accommodate the ones who caused the pain. Why do we do that? In this world it is not always acceptable to acknowledge what is wrong. As much as we have free speech, silence gets rewarded more. No press, no judgement, no explanations with penalties. Silence is…

It All Means Something

There she was furious. Thinking about how things could be better. Why did he treat her that way? Why didn’t anyone fight for more? Why did they sweep the mess under the rug? What is their problem? This is what happens when we have got a call on our life. Things get to us. We…

The Process

If I want to get to a new level of a building, I must take stairs or an elevator.Remember that when we set a goal often times we have to take steps to get there. Don’t rush the process. How would you feel if you were paying for service and the technician didn’t take his…

When things don’t go as planned

If you are like me, you like to plan your day. I like to know what to expect. Even in circumstances where no day is the same, I like to adapt to create stability for myself In some way. There has to be something I know that I am going to do each day. That…

From dream to reality

For the sake of dreaming why not just aim high? For the sake of flying, why not just spread your wings? For the sake of staying positive, why not just take a moment to change your perspective on your situation? Often times we amplify our problems. When we lack hope, we get unfocused. We get…

Growing each day

Each day you are growing into the person you need to become. Life experiences are shaping you, changing you and developing your abilities. You may think that time is just being wasted but trust me, everything will be put to good use. Don’t think that difficulties are only there to make us sad. We are…

Today is the day

Tomorrow is not the day. January 1 is not the day. Today is the day to do what it is you have been waiting to do. Stop waiting. The time is now. If you want change, make the decision. Love, Vicky